Amazing how that works.

One gets a spine and the other falls in line.

One day I predict the DB cannon with be ammended or revised as to how it relates to dealing with affairs.

It's not over but at least you can feel you taking back some self-control and self-respect. Good on you. Be brave, be strong. Good luck.

Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted