Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Update:
last night was OK. H said he thought after my telephone counseling session he'd come home and all of his stuff would be in the garage waiting for him!

I had to kind of laugh and say that's not what DB is about... We took turns shuttling kids about. I mentionned trying to find a way to save money on the cable/phone bill and said "my" bill, not "our" and H got upset...he waffled between getting angry about what he assumed were my assumptions (that I would stay in the townhome) and how he had a 50% equity in the townhome..to "I promise we will not fight over things"...We did get into a bit of an R talk that turned south a bit.

Later though we were in bed and joking about how cold it was and how H is always warm and I'm not... H said 'how come we have times when we really get along great?" -we were bantering like our old selves and ended up ML at H's initiation.

Things were fine this morning as H got up early and had some breakfast with the girls before school so I didn't see him much before I was out the door.

Still on the rollercoaster ride but I suspect he's still going to move out and want a D so I'm prepared for that even though I try to avoid thinking about it.