You are mad at him about he treats you, your family and you don't address the problem? Who's at fault now?
You stop being a doormat when you get up off the floor.
Clearly state your boundaries and the consequences. It's a very loving thing to do for yourself, him and your kids. It's time to handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
