Hmm... I started writing what the consequences could be, but it is mind reading on my part and all based on fear of not reconciling or getting hurt more.
I never wrote the NC letter or let him know why I've quit contacting him. But I don't think it would matter.
Thanks for your insight P17.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10