Doesn't feel like not answering gives me power. Makes me afraid of the consequences instead.
You need to get out of that way of thinking. And I know how hard that is as I've only recently started doing it myself.
This is about you. You need to think what you want to do - what is the RIGHT thing to do for YOU. If you go into NC you need to stick to it. I know it's hard. It is one of the hardest things I have ever done but after 2 weeks it has gotten easier to ignore the contact.
What are the consequences of not responding?
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
