PLEASE take it slow and easy, Dday. You're saying all the right things about being careful and cautious, but your tone just SCREAMS "melty man" and you're WAY too amped up.
Yeah, yeah, i know -- I'm a buzzkiller. But I've seen more false starts around here than I care to, and you are SO much like me it's not even funny. I have always LEAPED back in, both feet, caution-to-the-wind, and I always regret it.
SLOW and STEADY. Make her earn her way back into your heart.
Puppy
P.S. If you think I'm wrong, ask yourself this, and try to answer it honestly: would you insist upon the "no-contact whatsoever with OM's family" thing if she came to you RIGHT NOW and asked you nicely? Or would you be able to hold your ground?
