He planned on coming home for X-Mas which is in 3 weeks so I am not sure why he wants to come home now as the flight will be so expensive.And even if I would have asked him - would he have booked the flight and not paid the mortgage?
It's not that money was always his thing - I spent a lot during our marriage while he was working abroad and I have completely changed over the last few months - but I can't make myself disappear - separation or not - he still has to pay the same as before.He wanted to keep everything as it is for the moment - he hasn't even seen a lawyer - and that's the result.
We are in debt but I still think he could just book the flight and come home in 2 days if that's what he wants - I am just worried he will walk around and tell his family that I am the reason he couldn't come home now.
