Oh Britt, I'm so sorry! My DD is 3 and it is absolutely heartbreaking to see our innocent chidlren hurt by the selfish actions of our H.
I agree with the boundary that PDT suggested.
And I feel the same - it's one thing for them to treat us like $hit, but it's beyond comprehension how they can hurt or ignore their own flesh and blood.
When my H leaves, DD asks him where he's going and it about shatters my heart each time.
Just remember you are an awesome mommy! Be strong for your boys.
Hugs! Courtney
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010