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What do you think?
Is your H trying to keep you at his beck and call
sometimes they may not like the changes of us distancing and moving on to some degree
they want to keep us at their side even though there is no longer a M
I would ignore his anger and continue on your way
You dont have to respond to his every call
You are a busy person healing and creating a new life you can respond briefly, cordially when nessessary

I spent nearly 2 years being available to xh
he visited we talked sometimes for long periods of time
I listened to him
I really tried to show him I wanted this M
nothing worked for me
the energy between us was always very good at that time
so I tried and im glad I did
so keep enough of the connection with him
let him see the changes but dont have to overdo or always be available
be mysterious- let him wonder
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow