not good - I got nasty text messages yesterday of WH - he signed a form for us to pay a reduced mortgage rate from the 1st of December 09 on - so I took the money yesterday from our joined account and paid. Apparently he is off for one week from Sunday on and says now he can't come home and that I should have asked him first before taking his money.Note that we are already 2 months in mortgage arrears and this was a good offer from the bank. I thought him signing was enough but maybe I have to spell everything out for him from now on.

Last edited by bestraongforyoi; 12/04/09 12:23 PM.