Thanks folks. In a complete surprise today she has preemtively apologised for being too tired today (in theory Thursday\Friday is the date day) but that we'll take action tomorrow. This is pretty much what YAH's suggested.
Love DQ's suggestion
Quote:
Instead, stand up straight and tall and (metaphorically) beat your chest and then go take your wife to bed as soon as the mood strikes you!
Really sums up the dominant maleness that's a bit missing from me right now.
I'm beginning to feel a lot more positive now. THANKS!