chel
Im sorry
I know how hard it is
reading ypur post brought me back to post bomb almost 3 years ago now
I didnt know what to sasy either when H left
I said I didnt agree with what he was doing, but I will not stop him--it was sad for me but I kept my emotions in check and then cried to my best friend
I would keep it as brief as possible
maybe he can get another ride to airport
that might be very hard on you
Mine left everything here except a bif plastic bag of clothes
he took some items here ane there when he visited
but really left most of it
all his tools are still here
he is remarried now and lives in a 1 bedroom apartment
I threw away boxes full of his clothes some new
but I asked his to take them and he never did
will you be keeping your home?
maybe they keep their belonging home because it seems safe,,like they can still come back

You will know what tecniques to do at the right time
going dim or dark is usually helpful for us to detach more and move on
hang in
you have done very well
peace
or he could take a taxi


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow