I would like to see you regain the power in the dynamic of your relationship.
Your wife has had it for too long and she has played you seriously for the past few years. Seems to me she knows some tricks to keep you this way. Shes good at it.
She is good at it, and yes, I do have to regain the power.
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And No, I would'nt have sent the letter and I would not have said I would pay for all of it. That has placed all of the initiative on your shoulders. Now you have to follow through or you WILL be a flip-flopper and you will never regain the power because you will have a history of making grand finalizations then never following through. You can stall this though lawyers, fees, schedule conflicts, but still you have no other choice now but to go through with it.
What other choice did I have? She would have just kept us in limbo forever if she felt like it. I had to do something to get my b*lls back, and if divorcing her is the only way I can do it, then that's the way it has to be. This has been all her doing so far, and if I let her dictate how our M ends, her rule over me is complete.
