Well I am in the middle of an expirement currently with being her "best friend" and we will see what comes of that.
what comes of this? she views you as an Eunuch or at best like a gay friend.
Originally Posted By: LiveToLearn
Hmmm. How to do this. That is the tricky part. I agree that it is a true principle and if done correctly stands just as good of chance as succeeding as anything else. I guess it depends a lot on the situation.
situation = 3 affairs !!!! she moved out 8 months ago !!!
Act like she dropped off the face of the earth.
Go out and get yourself girlfriend. (or at least a female companion) ASAP. and stop all comunication with your wife for now.
When she starts coming around jealous as hell telling you to lose your friend it gets interesting. right now it just s#cks. trust me.