Hey Britt,
Just wanted to let you know that I looked over everything. I'm not sure what to say except that I wish you the best. I can't believe it's only been weeks since everything happened with you guys - reading through it all it seems like it's been longer.

I can totally relate to a lot of the emotions you've felt. It's crazy how when it's your own sitch you can't see obvious stuff - and ppl have to tell you over and over - that is SO me! But, girlfriend you have learned so much! You made such great progress. You should be really proud of yourself. I've fallen on my face countless times, was a reacting FOOL and experienced the same feelings that you did...but I know that both you and I are going to be okay.

I know we both feel confused about how to act around our Hs. I hope some of the pros can guide you on that.

I need to get going for now, but I'll check back in. Hang in there. You can do this! Soon you'll be back to moving forward.


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010