I think I'll send a text saying she should call me when she's calmed down....
Don't do it. She already knows she can call you when she's calmed down. You're doing good, especially under the circumstances. Keep it up, and stick to your guns. Don't call.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
