Michelle, I am sorry for your sitch, I know dual military is even tougher on M. Thank you for your service as well.
Frosty, thank you, that is a good way to look at it.
Blue, thanks, I gotta learn to control these emotions-workin' on it.
Ok, I am going to pay the car payment, I really don't want my credit jacked up. Ya, BAH and BAS are right there as far as what support will be. Our mortgage is $700 more than my BAH though, so I am under no obligation, as far as the military goes, to provide her with any other support. I gave her $218 for groceries already on Tuesday. Also, got a somewhat nice e-mail from her about a certain phone S15 wants for X-mas, telling me "S15, really wants this phone, we can get this for him, and you can have his old phone, let me know. That was it-short, and to the point. The thing is, she knows, that I know, what phone he wanted. I am preparing for anything.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010