It's times like these where you really see which people are of good character and which are not. As far as I'm concerned, we LBSs here shouldn't feel so bad about our own predicaments as much as we should (first and foremost)for our children and secondly our spouses/STBX spouses. The children are the innocent victims in all of this BS and that is what gets me upset the most in my sitch. As for my W, she hasn't accepted any personal accountability for the problems in our MR. The same issues she had in our MR will undoubtedly carry over into any future R she has as will all of her shortcomings.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________