FWIW, after reading through these threads, I'd appreciate any opinions based on my sitch.

Could the W position be a WAS or a MLC?

DD

H46
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial seperation/moved out 9/09

DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09