Hey.....just sticking my head in to give you a big old bear (((((hug))))! It sucks going through the holidays with all of this staring you in the face, but you have proven that you are a winner at life. A little thing like unemployment, pending D, and child custody isn't going to get this guy down! You're made of the right stuff and you will get through this. BTW, you are allowed to feel human and all this pumping up I may be doing is not to say you aren't allowed to have a bad day now & then. Just make sure if you fall off the horse that you climb back on and charge ahead.
I'll be checking in to see how you and the boys are. Take care and don't get sick during flu season.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!