how to 180 when you've been too independent?

[pearlharbr]

If you don't want to go on a date, go out with some single girlfriends and look for some men to flirt with. It's a great way to brush up on your flirting skills but there's no pressure to actually come away with a phone number. And it will remind you that there are other men out there who find you attractive and engagaging.