Can I save my marriage?

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I agree Britt - you can't be making it easier on him that's just wrong. He sees that your S feels bad but HIS feelings come first - classic selfishness. I'm sorry that you are suffering.

I just draw the line when it comes to kids. MLC, ADHD, OCD, SUV..whatever the hell problems you have you STILL have to be a parent and do the right thing when it comes to your kids. He needs to step up!