I am guessing a person that caves from a couple text messages and an email is not the person you want to be in the long run.
No. Absolutely not. I haven't caved. I vent here about them but she knows nothing of that.
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Just laugh it off. It is actually funny how early and hard she is challenging you. Be proud of yourself for being strong to your word. Take pride in what you have done.
Friends have commented on how strong I have been and how much I have stuck to my word too. So it is being noticed. Thanks for the encouragement.
Her messages are quite forceful and she is trying to wrestle control, I know that.
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I would be willing to bet big money on the R with the OM working out.
Why would you say that the relationship with the OM will work? What gives you that impression?
My own is that it is doomed to failure if he has any b*lls. She will pursue and pursue and pursue him. He will have to make the decision to leave.
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Be patiant and just be ready when the day comes. It will come. Just have fun in your life and know that the day will come
Which day are you referring to though? The R or the Big D!
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"