Well just give her the stuff through the IM then and ignore the rest of future contact.
I guess time will tell if she is pregnant...but could you deal with a child from the OM? I can know for certain that I would not take WH back under those circumstances; but would demand proof of paternity.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004