I would not give her the stuff. That is not really the goal. The goal is for you to be in control of you. For you to be strong and to stand by your word.
The long term goal is to make yourself a person you will be proud to see when you stand in the mirror.
I am guessing a person that caves from a couple text messages and an email is not the person you want to be in the long run.
Just laugh it off. It is actually funny how early and hard she is challenging you. Be proud of yourself for being strong to your word. Take pride in what you have done.
She will contact you when she wants to talk about the relationship. Ignore the rest just like you said you would.
I would be willing to bet big money on the R with the OM working out. Be patiant and just be ready when the day comes. It will come. Just have fun in your life and know that the day will come
Me 33 WOW 31 Married 12 years 4 YOD 1 YOD(adoption process) Bomb & moved out 4/01/09 Divorced 12/17/09