Thanks Dudess! I really appreciate that. I just read it and it totally makes sense.

Gnosis, if you are reading this, it makes sense with the simple smaller problems, but I'm in a pickle.

My problem is large and in charge. How do you start the "R" talk, or even the "why did you move back in?" talk?

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14