Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

P17, why do you think your W is pregnant? What clues do you have to make this speculation?

Do you know what, I have no idea. Before NC I did actually ask her about it and her reply was 'Why?' which made me think she didn't want to answer. She then told me 'No, I'm not'. I don't know. It's just a gut feeling. I could be entirely wrong. It makes no difference as there is nothing I can do about it anyway.

And I think I get PDT's point--you want your W to go through IM not communicate to you. If you respond even by giving the stuff to IM, it shows she can skip the whole IM in the future.

I was thinking that too. By giving her the stuff it is actually validating that it is okay to ignore the IM entirely.

What would happen if you just don't do what she asks and ignore her? Will she go through IM then?

I don't think she would. I think she would either keep at it or go through her solicitor. I'm still waiting for the damn separation agreement anyway so maybe that would be a blessing!

I am thinking of just giving her the stuff to stop her contacting me as that is the desired goal.