I'll begin drafting my email and post the rough draft to see if anyone can provide some guidance. I'm just tired of putting my foot in my mouth on a regular basis.

I mean, she's either naive to believe I won't suspect something's going to happen or naive that he isn't expecting something. She's driving hundreds of miles to "sleep on his couch" for the weekend. Seriously?

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)