HM, I didn't feel at all as though you were wasting my time. There was no hostility in my post. I felt no anger toward you, no resentment for the length of your post. It seemed to me that your post was meant to convince me that you've been treated poorly and experienced great pain. Of that I have and had no doubt. I also understood that you felt I shouldn't post to you without reading your other threads. Apparently I misunderstood your message. But that seems to happen a lot between us.

For instance, I expressed quite clearly that I thought it was very healthy for you to share your feelings here. Yet you hear otherwise in my words. To me, these continuing mis-communications show that for whatever reason, we don't communicate well. And given you find my efforts painful and unhelpful, I feel it is best for me to stop them. The conversation just isn't resulting in productive dialog. It isn't working for you, so it isn't working for me.

My aim is only to help people. I don't care if you like me. But I don't want to cause anyone pain, especially to no useful end. That's all I seem to do for you. We aren't a good fit. It's OK. I don't take that to say anything poorly about you or me. It's just not working. So, I'll stop. Always a good strategy :-)


Best,
Oldtimer