Just to clarify...it's not so much the ministry job I miss--although I did love the work. It's that most of my friends were at that parish, and I miss my friends. Some drifted away, but many seem to have been taken in by the "spin" that surrounded my leaving. Yes, those who were real friends should know me better than that. But I miss my friends, I miss being part of that community. And when I'm feeling lonely or disconnected, I miss them more.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012