Hmmm. How to do this. That is the tricky part. I agree that it is a true principle and if done correctly stands just as good of chance as succeeding as anything else. I guess it depends a lot on the situation.

My counsler has not mentioned anything like this to me to try in my sitch. I am wondering what and when to use this technique.

I believe if I had used it out of the gate my wife would have been back home already. Live and learn. Is it ever to late? hmmm I wonder.

Well I am in the middle of an expirement currently with being her "best friend" and we will see what comes of that.

Currently things are shifting as I shift I guess we will just need to see where they shift to.

Next I do not think that it will be that hard for me to reject her since she definitly deserves rejecting.


Me 33
WOW 31
Married 12 years
4 YOD
1 YOD(adoption process)
Bomb & moved out 4/01/09
Divorced 12/17/09