Hmmm. How to do this. That is the tricky part. I agree that it is a true principle and if done correctly stands just as good of chance as succeeding as anything else. I guess it depends a lot on the situation.
My counsler has not mentioned anything like this to me to try in my sitch. I am wondering what and when to use this technique.
I believe if I had used it out of the gate my wife would have been back home already. Live and learn. Is it ever to late? hmmm I wonder.
Well I am in the middle of an expirement currently with being her "best friend" and we will see what comes of that.
Currently things are shifting as I shift I guess we will just need to see where they shift to.
Next I do not think that it will be that hard for me to reject her since she definitly deserves rejecting.
Me 33 WOW 31 Married 12 years 4 YOD 1 YOD(adoption process) Bomb & moved out 4/01/09 Divorced 12/17/09