Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

I know that NC is supposed to for me but it doesn't make sense for me to use it unless I want him back. Otherwise, why should BSs do NC? They should just divorce if all they want is to heal and move on!See what I mean? NC is also a test like you (P17) have been saying. It tests our WSs to see if they can live without us and it tests us to see if we could handle the reality of divorce if they give it to us.

I feel like doing NC is like putting all your money on red when playing roulette. So I want to be mentally and emotionally ready to lose it all (him and half of my son) if I do NC.

Just my opinion!