WAW turning around? What now?

[LiveToLearn]

I agree with you. It is sort of funny, I am following my counslers advice and being friends currently. This scares me in someways but I guess it also makes sense.

Today I called her this morning just to say "hi" like a friend would. She was glad to get the call and even wrote me an email thanking me for it... then comes the confusion. "Have you been able to get the paperwork signed?"

It seems to be the habbit for her when she starts liking me again that she makes sure she covers her back with the divorce proceeding to make sure I know she is not going to change her mind.

Starting to wonder if this is one of those things that is not working or something that takes a little time.

I wrote back and said that I went through some of it and think we need to do work on the parenting plan. She agreed then called me asking when and where we could meet. Pretty strange how agresive she gets when I do something even remotely nice. She is very plesent even makes small talk but then always pushes for the divorce.

I am not going to stop her, this is her choice and of course I could not if I tried. She says she is confused about who she is. I heard from a friend that talked to her and he told me she said "She thought you were a great husband and a wonderfull dad but just needs the divorce right now. She told him it was hard to explain why. she did not have a reason." She has told other people including myself that same thing.

So to sum up... she is not sure about anything in her life... BUT that she wants a divorce. Almost funny.