Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[bluerain]

I agree with Micheal. It might be easier for you to make peace with paying the car if you focus on the fact that it provides safe, reliable transport for your boys.

And IMO, I dont think that your email was all that bad... Maybe it would have been smarter to not have sent it, but oh well, that ship has sailed. You didnt call her names (that she didnt already call herself anyway, and you reiterated your requests for the financial info, which we seem to have all agreed you needed to do. But, I agree that that was probably not the best thing to do at this moment!