judgement from you and friends and family anger from the aforementioned above never living down the affair, always being reminded of it later being set up by you as revenge reprisals from you letting you and the kids down again (strange but possible) the constant reminder of the pain he caused
Just a short list of possibles.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
