I guess when he mentioned coming home I just expected him to naturally talk to me about it when he got here.
How'd that work for you?
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I would like to know how people who have reconciled after a separation get back into the swing of things???
Communication - validation, listening, empathy, compassion
identifying and dealing with issues - solutions
transparency
avoiding old dysfunctional habits
saying what is on your mind - don't be afraid of what the other might think
boundaries - differentiation
practice true giving - LLs, no expectations
re-commiting
That should get you started. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
