Can I save my marriage?

[Lll54]

I kind of agree with you gucci. I think its pretty ridiculous the situation I'm in right now. I guess when he mentioned coming home I just expected him to naturally talk to me about it when he got here. Well its day four. No talk. The first two days he had a chance we had a few minutes together but nothing. I wasn't sure what to do? I am always steered here away from initiating the R talk. I'm confused.

Now that he is back to work for 5 days, I don't see him much. He works twelve hours, then plays hockey. By the time he gets home I'm in bed. Then the last three days of work are night shifts so he sleeps during the day and works at night. I won't really get a chance to talk to him until at least monday.

I don't know what to do, I don't know what to say, I don't know how to act. He is on days right now, and pre-separation he would come home on his lunch break and i would make him lunch. Well since we've been separated he has been eating "out" cause he had nobody to make him lunch. Then other night he mentioned to me that he wants to come home for lunches again. He said he spends way too much eating out. So its day two of his "day" shifts. And he hasn't come home for lunch on either. No phone call, no nothing. This is just ridiculous, I would like to know how people who have reconciled after a separation get back into the swing of things???