H's L sent sep. agrmt. to my L. Got it last weekend. Has a number of things wrong or left out. My L said we should talk end of this week so she can respond.
I emailed H yesterday . . .So today he replys, OK done. Did you get the letter from my L? How should I reply? I want to say, "H, I did receive it & am going to go over w L. I will not be rushed into an agrmt. just to satisfy you." I'm seething, but I am still trying to be civil & DB even though my hope is so so little now. Is that too nasty? I feel I need to set a boundary on his pressuring me but have problems wording it correctly.
I think simplying saying the first part, "I did receive it & am going to go over w L." is sufficient and civil.
I haven't read your thread so I assume there is history of him pressuring you to move things along? His inquiry, by itself, is just an inquiry though. Simply demonstrate that you will not be pressured by taking the time you need. You can best set that boundary by your actions.
