Well still very limited contact from W. Talked to her last week for maybe two minutes on bills. Then sent her an email detailing all the bills so that she could send money for the mortgage. Then yesterday we go through the following:
W: I'm going to come to the house tonight and get some Christmas stuff
M: I'm not going to be home tonight or tomorrow night
W: Can I still go there and get some stuff....just Christmas stuff
M: No we need to go through it and split it up
W: I'm not gonna keep it.... I don't have anywhere to store it...I'm gonna use it and bring it back.
M: Does Saturday morning at 10 work for you?
W: No I'm working... I can only do it tonight..I'm not gonna take anything for good..in fact I'm gonna bring the totes back right away cuz I have no room for them
W: I'm not gonna steal them...
M:I can't do it tonight. We will have to go through it another night when it works for both of us.
Not a big conversation by any means but most we have had in a couple of months. Having troubles with not being a nice guy yet not being a jerk. I think that I handled it ok but then again it is only a few bulbs and lights. She also does not have access to the house so in order for her to get in I would have to give her the code. Not to mention the fact the last time she came to the house alone she took somethings that she said she would return and now claims that she will keep them.
No mention of mediation from her and it has been over a month since my lawyer sent her the list of mediators.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
