Newbie (again)

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Has anyone else in this family (other than OM) shown that they are NOT supportive of your marriage?

I dunno, I'm as hard-core as they get around here, but this seems a little unreasonable to me, if she's that close with the other, female members of the family.

Puppy

Well, according to XW in prior conversations when I knew I shouldn't listen to word she says (and where this is concerned I didn't), she claims OM's sister opposed their relationship and asked XW numerous times "WTF do you think you're doing?". Again, according to XW.

Fact of the matter is, I believe that XW met up with OM at his sister's before the A was exposed on a few occasions and I know they were there after. To me, that says the sister certainly didn't support our marriage, which was a key point when XW balked at the concept of not speaking to her either. I said that since this person, our maid of honor, allowed this to transpire and come together under her roof, she is no friend of mine, and certainly no-one I could trust you around.

The rest of the family is mainly OM's mother whom I know XW can live without, and I've ran into on few occasion and couldn't even look me in the face when saying "hello" on the street.