No doubt - I felt better just reading it! I'll let the experts advise you whether to send but I think it's AWESOME! (as long as you really are done - sorry I havent' read your entire post). Wishing you the best.
So this evening H writes me and says that he is beginning to wind things up there. He said that a friend in yet another european country has invited him for Christmas. Then he said:
"I don't know how you stand. You haven't said. Back for Christmas important for you? or back for Christmas annoying for you or what? probably i didn't guess the right word, eh?"
D, now that I've calmed down a bit from yesterday... I think he's telling you what his agenda is i.e. he won't be back for Xmas. Plan accordingly.
I'd say don't reply. He will probably repeat the pattern with a financial question and interjection with the Xmas thing in a follow up email.
Hmm... another idea is this... sidestep the issue and raise the dental bill with him. "H, I just received the dental bill for my teeth and need to pay it. You said you would assist, how should I proceed?" I don't know when your bill is due, but raise the issue. Just be business. See if you can get it taken care of. Make it an urgent issue... you know... like he does.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
"H, I just received the dental bill for my teeth and need to pay it. You said you would assist, how should I proceed?"
+ "You can do what you want for Christmas, I have my own plans."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Dudess:I haven't read anything about your sitch, but I like your tongue-in-cheek letter! Felt good to get that out, huh?:)
Glad you enjoyed it. It does feel good to get that out once in a while.
Originally Posted By: LookingFrAnswers
No doubt - I felt better just reading it! I'll let the experts advise you whether to send but I think it's AWESOME! (as long as you really are done - sorry I havent' read your entire post). Wishing you the best.
Thanks LFA. I won't be sending that letter. Not prudent at this time.
Thanks for your thought gnosis. I started a new thread so I could put a summary up front. I think I'll copy your post there so things don't get more confusing.
