Ok, I was tempted to throw this in the new thread "Transparancy" as this is going to be the main topic of discussion here VERY soon with XW.
The deal here is: XW's situation with OM. They were childhood neighbors for years, given the tightness of the community, she is involved with that entire family. OM's sister was XW's best friend all thrughout school, and was our Maid of Honor at our wedding. And, last but not least, XW and OM are god-parents to OM's sister's child.
Last year, when XW propsed wanting to break it off with OM and work towards us being friends with the chance to have a R later on, I told her I simply could not do so and trust her in having ANY contact with that ENTIRE family.
I still do not feel this to be unreasonable.
Thoughts/comments?
Has anyone else in this family (other than OM) shown that they are NOT supportive of your marriage?
I dunno, I'm as hard-core as they get around here, but this seems a little unreasonable to me, if she's that close with the other, female members of the family.
