I'm new wondering if this works...

[Butterfly1]

THanks everyone. I had a realization after reading your great posts and resting - I don't have to get upset! Of course it shocked me at first, but I don't have to hold onto it! Woohoo Way to detach!

I'll combine all the advice - drop it for now, bring it up in counselling, and lightly with a sense of humor.

Now back to making me happy! Thanks friends.