Thanks for the reassurance on my status.

Time to start dating?

I did actually go out on a date a month or so ago. Played pool. Guess it would be my first date in 23 years!

We had a nice time; I went to my girlfriend's house and cried.
He didn't contact me again, nor me him. And that's OK. It was an "experiment" and I know it is not the best karma to practise on an innocent person.

I am in an email convo with another guy from Match. We should manage to meet up sometime in December. Assuming we manage to meet up, it should be fun. I do have conflicted feelings about dating if I am not free in my heart to really try and connect with someone.

I do go out with friends a lot; nothing date-like, but lots and lots of company.

It would be great to have one of you to go out on a date-like thing with! No pressure; all coming from the same place; have some fun and relax.

Well, you go take some lucky girl out for that evening you described, cutterbug.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process