23 years together. You are not a girlfriend. You were partners. Living common inlaw
And just think. You continue to learn and heal.
You are going to be a fabulous new gf to some lucky guy you choose to share your happiness with.
If you lived near cutterland I would take you out for a night of dinner ,ice hockey and a few games of pool. Then meet up with a group of people and enjoy the company of friendships.
When was the last time you went out on a friendly date?
I think you need to go out with a friend and just have a fun evening. Treat it like a real date and then cycle in some additional people.