Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[MichelleLT]

Hey SD, saw that my buddy Virtually_handsome was posting to you and then saw the title of your thread.

I am in the Army. As is my XH. So sorry to hear you are going through this. I basically experienced the opposite. While he was deployed he detached, came home and started As (possibly started them while he was gone? but I have no proof), bad PTSD, lots of drinking, speeding tickets, spending all our money. 1 half-hearted attempt at R on his part, 3 yrs later we are D.

I live in Cali, so not up on Texas D laws, but I am an atty. Texas is a community property state - which means, theoretically (and in reality in a no fault D), everything, and I mean EVERYTHING, assets AND debts, is split equally.

If the car will impact your credit rating, I am of the mind to take care of it.

Deal with next month next month. She is reacting to you wresting control from her. Reality is hitting her - this isn't as easy or fun as she had planned. Her problem, not yours.