And, as long as I'm doing it for me, with no expectation,
That's what drives cats crazy. Tease em and then ignore em - OMG it's torture to them. They have to pounce after a while, it's what they do.
I could do with a good pounce at this point. He!!, any pounce would be nice.
Keep letting her know you want her but don't need her.
Got it. And I think I am doing that. I think early on, she interpreted a lot of my pulling back a la LRT as me not caring about her. I have since told her that is not the case.
He!!, any pounce would be nice. 
