Well... I cracked and sent a little funny email on Monday.

And he replied nicely, and asked about the bills.

We had agreed to pay joint bills together, so I want to keep to my end of that bargain.

So, yes, I broke the NC instead of being strong enough to see if he would wake up and realize bills had to be paid. Smack me with a 2x4.

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process