Women cannot and do not love men they don't respect.
Here's an example from a different perspective: My BF was having an EA/PA. I told him I would not be in an open relationship. After a few weeks of him continuing the affair I kicked him out of the house and ended the R. A short while later he decided he wanted me back. He left me a pathetic voicemail about getting together. Nothing about that was attractive, especially when I could compare it to a message I had from another man I was spending time with. My male friend's message was confident, strong and not the least bit needy.
So if your W has you simpering at home, knowing full well that whatever she does you're just going to sit there and take it, and OM who is confident, fun and exciting, why would she ever change her current situation?
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
