Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Hope4us]

Outstanding Thinker.

Just keep that mindset...no pressure. Enjoy your "date" like it was a first date with a different woman. When you went on first dates, you didn't have any expectations, correct?

When there's no pressure/expectations, it lets the WAS relax and once they relax, they let themselves open up to the possibilities.

And just to give you a little encouragement, it was about a year after I got the bomb dropped on me that my W began to open up to me. Still took another 6-8 months after for her to show me she wanted to make a go of it, but after that year, I began to see my real W show up more and more.